5 Top Tips For Men Dating a BBW

Men that prefer big, beautiful women (BBW) can often feel stigmatised by society. Dating BBW’s can, therefore, be difficult, not only for men but for girls as well. 

To succeed in a relationship, you need to know how women think. But there isn’t a lot of reliable advice out there for men looking to date plus-sized girls. Moreover, BBWs are difficult to meet in public spaces because the party scene can be depressing. 

The best way to meet BBW is through an online dating site. When you think about it, this makes perfect sense. BBWs often experience body shaming and feel uneasy in bars and clubs.

However, it’s important to note that BBWs have standards. They have expectations from the men they date just as much as any woman. So once you find the girl you want to date, how do keep her?

Build Their Body Image Gently

Most BBWs will have suffered negative experiences around their body. They will also have had one-night stands in which they were “used” for sex. This makes a woman have low self-esteem in their body shape and self-worth. 

You may feel like you are trying to instil confidence by complimenting her body, but the human psyche doesn’t work like that. She will think you are ‘just saying that to get her into bed’. Remember, she has heard it all before.

In the early stages, don’t mention her body. Don’t call her sexy. Compliment her in the way she looks in a general way. Tell you to find her attractive, beautiful, alluring. Don’t go overboard.

Focus on How They Feel

Women are invested in men that care about how she feels. BBWs are especially more likely to give you love and affection if you treat her how you want to be treated yourself. 

This is another advantage to online platforms. You can focus on getting to know her mind without her feeling ashamed about her body. Understand what she likes and dislikes and centre your dating around activities and events that make her feel good about herself.

Be a good listener

The best way to impress a plus-sized woman is to be her best friend. And that means listening to her concerns and traumas and helping her feel better about bad moments.

It’s natural for BBW’s to suffer from low self-esteem. Humans are emotional creatures and talking is a great cure. We often see the negative side of life because of perceptions we have built from past experiences. Yet when we talk with friends, they help us see life through a different lens. 

Be Open and Honest

Big girls are not afraid to speak their minds. They are open and honest and expect the same attitude from their man. If you adopt the same philosophy with a BBW, she will bond with you quickly and make you fall in love with her.

Take Her Our In Public 

If you’re in a relationship with a BBW, don’t concern yourself with social stigmas. Hiding your larger than life girlfriend from your mates will make her think you’re embarrassed to be seen with her and the relationship will turn toxic.