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Do you want to meet attractive gay men with similar interests? On Bar4Fun, you can find single gay guys looking for love, potential dates or sex hookups in your local area. With so many gay dudes available for online chat and online dating on Bar4Fun, you can get to know loads of new people from the comfort of your home before arranging to meet your favourite guys in real life. It’s free to register, browse singles’ profiles and message any of our members, and it’s free to receive and read messages from other Bar4Fun users.

With a free Bar4Fun account, you can chat with gay men in a safe and secure online environment. If you want to meet new people when you’re not online, keep reading to discover the top places to pick up available gay guys.

Although it’s usually much easier to find gay men online than in real life, you can still go out and meet singles looking for potential dates or one-night stands. Let’s take a look at some of the best places to find and approach available gay guys.

Gay Bars and Clubs

There’s no doubt about it. Gay bars and clubs are the easiest places to meet cute guys who want to hook up with men. Happy hour can be a great time to rub shoulders with a lot of cute guys who want to enjoy a fun night out or no-strings-attached sex, but you can find guys drinking and socialising in gay bars both during the daytime and evening. If you live in a town without any gay bars or clubs, you might be able to find gay men at one of your local watering holes, or you may need to visit a nearby city with a gay bar scene.

Sex and Fetish Shops

Adult sex shops are fascinating places not only for what they sell but also for who they attract. Plenty of gay men go to sex shops for toys and DVDs, and some even visit them to pick up cute gay guys. So, don’t be shy when you walk past your nearest sex or fetish shop. Go inside, scan the place for guys looking at adult gay DVDs or toys and, if you spot one, start a conversation with them.

Gyms and Leisure Centres

Your local gym or leisure centre can be a great place to meet other men and approach fit gay guys. Whilst some gay men only use the gym to work out, other men are using this environment to pick up guys, be it in the gym itself or the changing rooms after a session. Some even admit to having sex at the gym, but most prefer to exchange numbers and arrange to meet later.

Coffee Shops

Gay-friendly coffee shops are best for meeting gay men, but you can still find gay guys at your local cafes if you live in a town or city without a big gay community. The great thing about meeting someone new in a coffee shop is that you can have conversations with men, away from crowded places like bars and clubs.

Sex Hookup Safety Tips

While first dates and sex hookups can be a lot of fun, your safety is the number one priority. Here are some top tips to help you stay safe when you meet up with gay men you’ve been chatting with online:

  • Always keep a friend or loved one in the loop by telling them where you’re going and the name of the person you’re meeting. You can also share your real-time location with them via an app on your mobile phone.
  • Check your phone has plenty of battery life before you leave home to meet your date or sex hookup partner.
  • For the first few encounters, either drive yourself, get a taxi or use public transport. Don’t let your date or hookup pick you up or take you home.
  • Meet somewhere public, like a local bar, café or restaurant, when you know there will be other people around.
  • Be aware of your alcohol consumption, and don’t leave your drinks unattended.
  • Keep some personal information private, such as where you live, your work address and your favourite local haunts.
  • Dates and sex hookups should be enjoyable experiences, so don’t be afraid to get up and leave if you start to feel unsafe or uncomfortable.

Sex Hookup Health Advice for Gay Men

If you’re sexually active, using a condom helps to protect both you and your sex hookup partners against HIV and other types of sexually transmitted infections, such as chlamydia and gonorrhoea. Since many STIs can go unnoticed for a long time, it’s essential to get tested at your GP surgery or a local sexual health clinic, even if you don’t have any symptoms. You also need to check the current guidance on meeting up with people from other households during the coronavirus pandemic before you hook up with gay men in your local area.

Online Dating at Bar4Fun

Whether you want to meet another man for a serious relationship or some casual fun, join Bar4Fun to find your dream gay guy. Our online dating bar lets you meet and chat with like-minded gay men looking for someone special, potential dates or sex hookups throughout the UK. All you need to do is create your online dating profile, and then you can start conversations with attractive guys or wait for them to message you. The best part? You can sign up and use Bar4Fun for free, plus you can browse photos of gay guys before you become a member. So, if you’re single and ready to mingle, register for free today and start chatting with available gay dudes near you.